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Wednesday, July 7, 2010

Self Help Mantra - TIPS TO BE A GOOD MOM - Part 1

TIPS TO BE A GOOD MOM


It goes without saying that mothers have an important role to play in their children's lives.
Here are a few tips on how you can be a better parent to your child:

Respect and value your child :
  • Always respect your children -- respect and listen to their views and values, their opinions.
  • Give them your complete attention when they want to talk to you.
  • Put whatever activity you are engaged in on hold, and if that's not possible, set a time for when you can chat, and make sure to stick to it.
  • Encourage your children every opportunity you get.
  • Make them feel special and express your love for them often.
  • Hug them, kiss them and say 'I love you' everyday, not just when they are young but also as they grow older.
  • Let them feel your love and affection as often as you can.

Talk to your kids :
  • Conversing with children is the best way to influence their ability and love for learning.
  • Children who are spoken to often as infants will understand more words when they are toddlers and pre-schoolers than others.
  • Communication also strengthens the mother-child bond and eases out the communication barriers, even as kids grow older.

Have fun with them :
  • Mothers are so busy with their day-to-day routines that they forget to have fun with their children.
  • Take out one-on-one time to enjoy with your child.
  • Do something that both of you like -- indulge in outdoor games, art and craft, board games, go for a walk, chat, cook -- do anything at all that makes you feel good.
  • Laugh together, tickle each other, dance, sing songs, just have FUN!

Read to your little ones :
  • Reading to your children is the best way to inculcate a reading habit in them, which leads to a love of learning as they grow older.
  • Reading also creates an emotional bond between parent and the child, whether it's lap-time reading, bedtime reading or any other way of doing it that you both enjoy.
  • Moreover, it develops their imagination, creativity, vocabulary and communication skills.


To Be Continued ....


Source : DSDG