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Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Lessons for Maintaining Relationships - Short Stories 2

NO POINTING FINGERS


A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?"


The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find  a better husband than you."


We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.


If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.
 
 
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